There are at least three things in life that have to be carefully
dealt with because once they are gone off, they cannot be recuperated or
remediated. I’m referring here to the time when it
is lost, the words when they are spoken,
and the opportunities when they are missed.
Let’s start with the lost time. Time is man’s terrifying
adversary number one. It is pitiless. Once you waste it, you can never find it
again. For most people, time is not precious until they lose it. Can you
imagine the amount of time people waste every single day?! They have to feel
regret after it is gone because they know they’ll never have it back. However
they never learn, they make the same mistake again and over again. It is a part
of their life which has been spared for nothing. Those who value time, they do
their utmost to keep busy thinking and exploiting every moment the maximum.
They firmly believe that “There are only two times in life, ‘Now’ and ‘Too
Late’”
The second is the spoken words. You need to watch your
words closely. Once you say something, it is impossible to unsay it. It is
always too late to undo once the word goes out of the mouth. It is just like
the bullet; nothing can stop it, and nobody can imagine the damage it can cause.
You have to think before you talk since what you say can be fatal for the
others or for yourselves. Therefore, you
speak only when you choose your words carefully lest they should hurt, or make
a jerk of you. If you don’t want to keep apologizing all the time, be the
master of the words by not pronouncing them until you make sure they are
harmless and maybe wise as well. Don’t forget that the wounds that some words cause
last forever, and are never healed.
The third one is the missed opportunity. Good opportunities
seldom knock at your door, so you have to keep quiet and listen carefully. Maybe
one day a roving good opportunity knocks at your door, then you shall be ready
to seize it straight away otherwise, you’ll regret it for the rest of your
life. Those precious occasions are not frequent just like luck. “Take full
of every opportunity that comes your way” as Milka Duno said. Never miss
it. If you keep missing opportunities, it is obviously your fault; that’s why
life is a series of random chances which have to be seized and well exploited.
Once they are missed, those opportunities are lost forever.
To sum up, your
life is made of beautiful things that you can easily and unintentionally ruin.
So if you want to avoid this, you have to be dutiful with time by not to
wasting it, and you have to watch your mouth for fear you should destroy your
social life with stupid unnecessary comments or words, and finally you have to
be vigilant to grasp the rarely presented opportunities before they are gone
forever.